My Kid is Amazing

First of all, for those of you that don't know I actually have two amazing children. One likes her anonymity and the other is in the Air Force. Sean deployed on Monday, called from Ireland on Tuesday, then also on Tuesday from Kuwait and Qatar. Instead of complaining about how tired he was, he was awed by how many countries he was in within a 24 hour period. God bless him, what a great attitude. He called again on Wednesday from Qatar shortly before he left for Iraq, I imagine that call will come tomorrow (phone rings). Actually it just came now!!!! The connection was not as good as the other countries but he is good. Has a T.V. and a fridge. I got that and he'd call tomorrow before the called dropped. The text messaging work too. We may all want to buy stock in AT&T as this deployment is going to last 6-8 months and I've already received five phone calls and 2 text messages. I am by NO means complaining, there are many things I will gladly give up to pay the phone bill. The one thing I won't give up is my new cocktail invention. I call it the "deployment cocktail". Dissolve crystal light lemonade in really good orange juice and shake with ice and vodka. Quite yummy!!! It is a treatment not a cure. Anyway, I now know there is a 7 hour time difference between here and Iraq. I know that at 4:00 am Kuwait time it was 95 degrees and 115 in Qatar during the day. Yikes, that is hot!!! Can't wait to hear the weather report from Iraq. I'll keep you all posted on what's happening. Peace & Hugs PAFM, Susan

Well That Wasn't Too Long...

Sean just called!!! They have a stopover in Ireland for a few hours then a 2 day layover in Qater before ending up in Iraq. He'll call again later. Yay. I am the luckiest mom.

Memorial Day 2008

How ironic that today, "Memorial Day" is the day Sean deploys to Iraq! And the roller coaster ride continues. After the let down of all leave and liberty canceled and all Airmen confined to base, the off base liberty order was rescinded. The Airmen were permitted off base if they stayed with 50 miles of Fort Dix/McGuire AFB. Alyssa and I went to the base on Saturday and spent time with Sean, later we were joined by his Dad and his dad's S.O. The one thing that Sean really wanted to do before he left was to see the new Indiana Jones movie. He said that he "wasn't alive" to see any of the others on the big screen and really wanted to see it before he left. Sean, Alyssa, Shane (one of the Airmen that came to NY) and I saw the movie. A good time was had by all. The next day we were joined by Uncle Howie and Aunt Julie. Dad and S.O. came back too and we had a BBQ. Sean invited most of the guys deploying with him including the Team Leader, Staff Sgt. Carlos Durango, who promised me that he would keep Sean and all of his Team safe. He seems like a man that intends to keep his word. It was great to meet these brave young men. The bond they have formed is truly inspiring and I know "they have each others backs" Words cannot begin to express how proud I am of my son and all of these brave lunatics. Please keep them all in your thougts and prayer. I found this prayer on the internet: The Special Forces Prayer Almighty God Who art the Author of Liberty and the Champion of the oppressed hear our prayer. We the men of Special Forces, acknowledge our dependence upon Thee in the preservation of human freedom. Go with us as we seek to defend the defenseless and to free the enslaved. May we ever remember that our nation, whose motto is "In God We Trust," expects that we shall acquit ourselves with honor, that we may never bring shame upon our faith, our families, or our fellow men. Grant us wisdom from Thy mind, courage from Thine heart, strength from Thine arm, and protection by Thine hand. It is for Thee that we do battle, and to Thee belongs the victor's crown. For Thine is the kingdom, and the power and glory forever, Amen! - Chaplain John Stevey For all intents and purposes for the last year or so Sean has just had a job in another state. He had a cell phone and we texted and spoke frequently. Now the reality is hitting me. I don't know how or when we will communicate next. His cell doesn't work in Iraq and he doesn't have his laptop yet. And I don't have his APO. Aaaagh. This is definately not fun. The countdown begins: How long before I hear from my son? Peace & Hugs PAFM, Susan

Random Thoughts

As I was driving yesterday I noticed a spider holding on to my windshield for dear life. And I wondered, as I was taking it a mile from where it started, which must be like a million miles in spider distance: will it miss it's mommy and family? I had an appointment this morning. As I was getting ready to leave I realized there was something I needed to have in order to go. I couldn't remember what it was. I knew that if I continued to look, I'd know it when I saw it. There they were....my shoes!!! Guess maybe I'm not holding it together as well as I thought.

My Bubble Burst!!!

As so many of us Air Force parents do, I placed myself in a little bubble (big bubble?) of denial. Well my bubble has burst. Sean is deploying to Iraq on Monday. I have been luckier than most, in that his deployment training was at Fort Dix and so I got to see him pretty often. In fact the last 3 out of 4 weekends including Mothers day. I don't think I saw him that much when he lived at home. He was supposed to have leave this weekend and come home but some boneheads got drunk and stupid, bad combination and all off base leave and liberty was canceled. So instead of a fun relaxing weekend in NY with great restaurants (before all the MRE's he has to look forward to) and lots of fun things to do: my daughter and I will head back to Fort Dix. Again, I consider myself lucky, it may not be plan A, but we'll make it a hell of a plan B. That's what's going on here.

Pretty Much Up To Date

Sean came home on leave this weekend and brought a few friends with him. This weekend was awesome. The guys and I had an amazing time and some wonderful experiences. I'll start with: Did you know that some of the camps and bases are named after firefighters that died on 9/11. I did not. So, as we are on the way to the WTC memorial and construction site Sr. Airman Kevin mentioned this. I had no idea. Well he then went on to say that he was stationed at Camp Bucca during one of his deployments. Well a lightbulb went on over my head. I have a neighbor who's son was a fire marshall in the NYC Fire dept. and died on 9/11. You guessed it, Camp Bucca is named after Ronald Bucca. I called his mom and told her that these fine young men are here and would like to meet her. Soooo Mrs. Astrid Bucca took a stroll over and joined us. She brought them t-shirts and hats and got to ask them what the camp was like and just chat in general. A very moving experience for all involved. We also had an incredible experience when we went for dinner. The guys wanted to wear their uniforms to the WTC as a tribute, so of course they were still in uniform when we went to the restaurant in Little Italy for dinner. A man came up to our table, thanked these awesome young men for their service and asked me if he could help take care of the bill. I thanked him for his generous gesture and told him that we would be honored. I know that people want to do something for the troops and welcome the opportunity when it presents itself. Well in case this wasn't cool enough, when we asked for the check the waiter informed us that someone had alreay taken care of it! Needless to say many people came up and thanked them for their service. Some of them clearly saw the gratitude campaign video and put their hand to their hearts in appreciation. All in all it was an amazing weekend. Just the fact they these Airmen wanted and expected me to join them was....(I'm out of superlatives) I'll try to remember more and post but these are the pretty spectaular highlights of the weekend. I've never had so much fun cooking, cleaning and doing (their) laundry. Still have sheets and towels to do and I'm on cloud 9.

Another AF Moms and Dads Post

The word breathe just took on a whole new meaning! We've all said it. We've said it to each other, I've said it to myself. We really mean it when we say it. Yesterday it became my mantra. I had the most wonderful weekend visiting with my son, Sean, at Robins Air Force Base. I met my future daughter in law, went to the Georgia Aquarium, visited with my favorite Uncle and Aunt in Savana, Ga. Read a book, spent 5 days with my son (in the car, driving almost 700 miles) without a fight. We talked, laughed and caught up. We talked about his deployment to Iraq (Sorry, Judy it's on again) in April and what he wants in his care-packages to his desire to have children in the future so that he can torment them and any thing else you can possibly think of. I'll post pictures and detail the trip in a day or so, but back to Breathe....I drove Sean to his post shortly before I left, "to guard the flight line". It just so happened to be Air Force 2. We kissed and hugged goodbye (no 5 second rule) and off I went. I didn't know that you could drive and NOT breathe at the same time. My chest literally, physically hurt. And I just kept repeating to myself, BREATHE.....and I couldn't!!! The closest I ever came to that sensation before was the death of my parents. But this is my son, my child, and I couldn't catch my breath. I kept repeating Breathe, Breathe and I must have because I did make it to the airport and I am writing this now, but holy shit (sorry) I never felt like that before. And just as I composed myself the song Father and Son by Cat Steven played on my ipod. And then I had to start all over again. I called Sean twice on the way to Atlanta just to hear his voice and to tell him again how much I love him and how proud I am of him. Lucky for me, my very Best friend, Kathy picked me up at the airport and gave me that hug I so desparately needed. As I drove to the airport from RAFB to Atlanta, I thought to myself I should have brought along a phone number for one of you guys. No one that I could have called at that moment would have gotten it like y'all. I'm going to Breathe now... Peace & Hugs PAFM, Susan #13 NYC

Old News

For those of you that don't know, Sean and Jamie split up. He is happy and all is well.

A post from the AF Moms & Dads group

Hi Ya'll, I knew I could count on you to understand "breathe". So now some details. I texted Sean when I landed in Atlanta and he was thrilled. About 20 minutes later I got a call "where are you?". I told him I had just picked up the car and was leaving the airport. I got a few "where are you calls along the way". It was so cute! Sean and Jamie met me at the gate and I got a crushing hug from my son.It was wonderful. No tears yet. I met Jamie for the first time andwe embraced. She told me Sean was jumping out of his skin all week,he was so excited that I was coming for a visit. That was so nice to hear. Sean told me that Jamie was nervous about meeting me, also nice to hear. A few minutes later Jamie had to go to her post. Sean and I went out to dinner (actually brought it in Gilmore Girls style)and went back to his dorm and talked and caught up. The next day, he slept and Jamie and I had a girl bonding day. We went for brunch, manicures and pedicures (her first pedi) and shopping for their engagement gift. Unfortunatley that was pretty much the last I saw of her, she was ill and couldn't join us for the rest of our excursions. The next day Sean and I went to the Georgia Aquarium in Atlanta. Quite amazing. The day after we went to Savanah to visit with my favorite uncle and aunt. (The pictures from that trip as well as Jamie and Sean are on another camera and have not been uploaded yet.) It was a most relaxing weekend. I don't know how, I drove almost 850 miles between Friday and Tuesday. I even managed to read a book while I was there. It was so GREAT seeing Sean in his new enviroment. I've never seen him so happy or in his element like he is now. He and Jamie are a wonderful couple and I'm thrilled that she is joining our family. As it turns out I may see him again in a few weeks, he has leave and is coming to NY at the end of the month.Unfortunately he is being deployed to Iraq in April. I may go to Georgia again in early March with my daughter so she can meet her future sister-in-law. I can't begin to tell you what an awewome trip it was. I haven't felt this relaxed or rested in I can't remember when. I stayed at the lodge right on the base. I had a 2 bedroom suite with a fridge and microwave. The kids liked hanging out in the room to watch cable, which of course they don't have. And we had plenty of room since it was a suite. I'd stay there again in a minute. The town of Warner Robins has NOTHING. Lots of fast food restaurants and some chain stores, Walmart and Target, but really nothing. And I didn't care because I was with my Airman!!!!! I'll try to get more pictures up soon. Peace & Hugs PAFM, Susan #13 NYC

More Old Updates

On Tuesday, April 10, 2007, at 08:36 PM, SUECHEFNY@aol.com wrote:> Hi everyone! Here are some of the photos from Sean's graduation. As you can see his is an honor graduate. He is very happy and doing well. He will stay at Lackland for another 13 weeks and then either go to Fort Dix, N.J, for additional training or be assigned a permanent duty station. We're not sure yet. Sean has limited access to e-mail, his e-mail address is Redknight301. I will update you with his new mailing address as soon as I have it. The other young man in the pictures is Sean's friend David. His parents were unable to attend so we "adopted" him for the weekend. We really enjoyed his company. Hope everyone had a happy Passover/Easter. Love, Susie

Old Updates

On Wednesday, November 29, 2006, at 09:06 PM, SUECHEFNY@aol.com wrote: Hi All, I am both proud and horrified to tell you Sean has finally taken the plunge. After many years of his parents talking him out of it, Sean has enlisted in the Air Force! As many of you know since he was old enough to know that when he "grew up" he had to do something, the military has been his choice. I am very proud of him. If you would like to contact Sean to show your love and support his e-mail address is redknight301. Now, just in case you haven't been... Pray for PEACE!!! Love, Susan